c++: -Wdangling-reference and empty class [PR115361]
We can't have a dangling reference to an empty class unless it's
specifically to that class or one of its bases. This was giving a
false positive on the _ExtractKey pattern in libstdc++ hashtable.h.
This also adjusts the order of arguments to reference_related_p, which
is relevant for empty classes (unlike scalars).
Several of the classes in the testsuite needed to gain data members to
continue to warn.