basic/hashmap: add hashops variant that does strdup/freeing on its own

basic/hashmap: add hashops variant that does strdup/freeing on its own

So far, we'd use hashmap_free_free to free both keys and values along with
the hashmap. I think it's better to make this more encapsulated: in this variant
the way contents are freed can be decided when the hashmap is created, and
users of the hashmap can always use hashmap_free.