MINOR: threads: use faster locks for the spin locks

MINOR: threads: use faster locks for the spin locks

The spin locks used to rely on W locks, which involve a loop waiting
for readers to leave, and this doesn't happen here. It's more efficient
to use S locks instead, which are also mutually exclusive and do not
have this loop. This saves one test per spinlock and a few tens of
bytes allowing certain functions to be inlined.