xfs: compact deferred intent item structures

xfs: compact deferred intent item structures

Source kernel commit: 9e253954acf53227f33d307f5ac5ff94c1ca5880

Rearrange these structs to reduce the amount of unused padding bytes.
This saves eight bytes for each of the three structs changed here, which
means they're now all (rmap/bmap are 64 bytes, refc is 32 bytes) even
powers of two.

Signed-off-by: Darrick J. Wong <djwong@kernel.org>
Reviewed-by: Chandan Babu R <chandan.babu@oracle.com>
Signed-off-by: Eric Sandeen <sandeen@sandeen.net>