add on_connect to MySQLDialect_pyodbc

add on_connect to MySQLDialect_pyodbc

Fixes: #4876
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### Description
add on_connect to MySQLDialect_pyodbc to specify Unicode encoding/decoding settings for the pyodbc connection

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Closes: #4885
Pull-request: https://github.com/sqlalchemy/sqlalchemy/pull/4885
Pull-request-sha: 58f6176331702b72f3ea8342c93be6fe9a3db26f

Change-Id: If05c1cf8fb1d8efebcf809bdefe40242118d763f