vfio: selftests: Enable asserting MSI eventfds not firing

vfio: selftests: Enable asserting MSI eventfds not firing

Make it possible to assert that a given MSI eventfd did _not_ fire by
adding a helper to mark an eventfd non-blocking. Demonstrate this in
vfio_pci_device_test by asserting the MSI eventfd did not fire before
vfio_pci_irq_trigger().

Acked-by: Shuah Khan <skhan@linuxfoundation.org>
Signed-off-by: David Matlack <dmatlack@google.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20250822212518.4156428-11-dmatlack@google.com
Signed-off-by: Alex Williamson <alex.williamson@redhat.com>