tcp: support TCP_DELACK_MAX_US for set/getsockopt use

tcp: support TCP_DELACK_MAX_US for set/getsockopt use

Support adjusting/reading delayed ack max for socket level by using
set/getsockopt().

This option aligns with TCP_BPF_DELACK_MAX usage. Considering that bpf
option was implemented before this patch, so we need to use a standalone
new option for pure tcp set/getsockopt() use.

Add WRITE_ONCE/READ_ONCE() to prevent data-race if setsockopt()
happens to write one value to icsk_delack_max while icsk_delack_max is
being read.

Signed-off-by: Jason Xing <kerneljasonxing@gmail.com>
Reviewed-by: Eric Dumazet <edumazet@google.com>
Link: https://patch.msgid.link/20250317120314.41404-3-kerneljasonxing@gmail.com
Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>