ResultProxy won't autoclose connection until state flag is set

ResultProxy won't autoclose connection until state flag is set

Changed the mechanics of :class:`.ResultProxy` to unconditionally
delay the "autoclose" step until the :class:`.Connection` is done
with the object; in the case where Postgresql ON CONFLICT with
RETURNING returns no rows, autoclose was occurring in this previously
non-existent use case, causing the usual autocommit behavior that
occurs unconditionally upon INSERT/UPDATE/DELETE to fail.

Change-Id: I235a25daf4381b31f523331f810ea04450349722
Fixes: #3955
(cherry picked from commit 8ee363e4917b0dcd64a83b6d26e465c9e61e0ea5)
(cherry picked from commit f52fb5282a046d26b6ee2778e03b995eb117c2ee)