Reject ADD CONSTRAINT NOT NULL if name mismatches existing constraint

Reject ADD CONSTRAINT NOT NULL if name mismatches existing constraint

When using ALTER TABLE ... ADD CONSTRAINT to add a not-null constraint
with an explicit name, we have to ensure that if the column is already
marked NOT NULL, the provided name matches the existing constraint name.
Failing to do so could lead to confusion regarding which constraint
object actually enforces the rule.

This patch adds a check to throw an error if the user tries to add a
named not-null constraint to a column that already has one with a
different name.

Reported-by: yanliang lei <msdnchina@163.com>
Co-authored-by: Álvaro Herrera <alvherre@kurilemu.de>
Co-authored-bu: Srinath Reddy Sadipiralla <srinath2133@gmail.com>
Backpatch-through: 18
Discussion: https://postgr.es/m/19351-8f1c523ead498545%40postgresql.org