MINOR: server: split the server deletion code in two parts

MINOR: server: split the server deletion code in two parts

We'll need to be able to verify whether or not a server may be deleted.
For now, both the verification and the action are performed in the same
function, at once under thread isolation. The goal here is to extract
the verification code into a new function that will perform these checks,
return a status between success/recoverable/non-recoverable failure, and
will also return a message for the caller.