Don't use EV_CLEAR for kqueue events.

Don't use EV_CLEAR for kqueue events.

For the semantics to match the epoll implementation, we need a socket to
continue to appear readable/writable if you wait multiple times without
doing I/O in between (in Linux terminology: level-triggered rather than
edge-triggered).  This distinction will be important for later commits.
Similar to commit 3b790d256f8 for Windows.

Reviewed-by: Kyotaro Horiguchi <horikyota.ntt@gmail.com>
Discussion: https://postgr.es/m/CA%2BhUKGJAC4Oqao%3DqforhNey20J8CiG2R%3DoBPqvfR0vOJrFysGw%40mail.gmail.com