util-lib: rework rename_process() to be able to make use of PR_SET_MM_ARG_START

util-lib: rework rename_process() to be able to make use of PR_SET_MM_ARG_START

PR_SET_MM_ARG_START allows us to relatively cleanly implement process renaming.
However, it's only available with privileges. Hence, let's try to make use of
it, and if we can't fall back to the traditional way of overriding argv[0].

This removes size restrictions on the process name shown in argv[] at least for
privileged processes.