[3.12] gh-142145: Remove quadratic behavior in node ID cache clearing (GH-142146...

[3.12] gh-142145: Remove quadratic behavior in node ID cache clearing (GH-142146) (#142211)

* gh-142145: Remove quadratic behavior in node ID cache clearing (GH-142146)
* gh-142754: Ensure that Element & Attr instances have the ownerDocument attribute (GH-142794)
(cherry picked from commit 1cc7551b3f9f71efbc88d96dce90f82de98b2454)
(cherry picked from commit 08d8e18ad81cd45bc4a27d6da478b51ea49486e4)
(cherry picked from commit 8d2d7bb2e754f8649a68ce4116271a4932f76907)

Co-authored-by: Jacob Walls <38668450+jacobtylerwalls@users.noreply.github.com>
Co-authored-by: Seth Michael Larson <seth@python.org>
Co-authored-by: Petr Viktorin <encukou@gmail.com>
Co-authored-by: Hugo van Kemenade <1324225+hugovk@users.noreply.github.com>
Co-authored-by: Gregory P. Smith <68491+gpshead@users.noreply.github.com>
Co-authored-by: Hugo van Kemenade <1324225+hugovk@users.noreply.github.com>
Co-authored-by: Gregory P. Smith <68491+gpshead@users.noreply.github.com>
Co-authored-by: Gregory P. Smith <greg@krypto.org>