bpo-43795: PEP-652: Clean up the stable ABI/limited API (GH-25482)

bpo-43795: PEP-652: Clean up the stable ABI/limited API (GH-25482)

- `_Py_EncodeLocaleRaw`, which is private by name, undocumented,
  and wasn't exported in `python3.dll`, is moved to a private header.
- `_Py_HashSecret_Initialized`, again private by name, undocumented,
  and not exported in `python3.dll`, is excluded with `Py_LIMITED_API`.
- `PyMarshal_*` and `PyMember_*One` functions, declared in private headers and
  not exported in `python3.dll`, are removed from `Doc/data/stable_abi.dat`.
- `PyMem_Calloc` which *was* exported in `python3dll.c`, is moved to public
  headers where it joins its other `PyMem_*` friends.

Only the last change is documented in the blurb; others are not user-visible.
(Nothing uses `Doc/data/stable_abi.dat` yet.)

https://bugs.python.org/issue43795