BUG/MEDIUM: servers: Attempt to reuse an unfinished connection on retry.

BUG/MEDIUM: servers: Attempt to reuse an unfinished connection on retry.

In connect_server(), if the previous connection failed, but had an alpn, no
mux was created, and thus the stream_interface's endpoint would be the
connection. In this case, instead of forgetting about it, and overriding
the stream_interface's endpoint later, try to reuse the connection, or the
connection will still be in the session's connection list, and will reference
to a stream that was probably destroyed.

This should be backported to 1.9.