cxl/region: Split commit_store() into __commit() and queue_reset() helpers

cxl/region: Split commit_store() into __commit() and queue_reset() helpers

The complexity of dropping the lock is removed in favor of splitting commit
operations to a helper, and leaving all the complexities of "decommit" for
commit_store() to coordinate the different locking contexts.

The CPU cache-invalidation in the decommit path is solely handled now by
cxl_region_decode_reset(). Previously the CPU caches were being needlessly
flushed twice in the decommit path where the first flush had no guarantee
that the memory would not be immediately re-dirtied.

Cc: Davidlohr Bueso <dave@stgolabs.net>
Cc: Jonathan Cameron <jonathan.cameron@huawei.com>
Cc: Dave Jiang <dave.jiang@intel.com>
Cc: Alison Schofield <alison.schofield@intel.com>
Cc: Vishal Verma <vishal.l.verma@intel.com>
Cc: Ira Weiny <ira.weiny@intel.com>
Acked-by: Peter Zijlstra (Intel) <peterz@infradead.org>
Reviewed-by: Dave Jiang <dave.jiang@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Jonathan Cameron <jonathan.cameron@huawei.com>
Signed-off-by: Dan Williams <dan.j.williams@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Fabio M. De Francesco <fabio.m.de.francesco@linux.intel.com>
Link: https://patch.msgid.link/20250711234932.671292-6-dan.j.williams@intel.com
Signed-off-by: Dave Jiang <dave.jiang@intel.com>