sd-event: Make sure iterations of defer and exit sources are updated

sd-event: Make sure iterations of defer and exit sources are updated

Defer and exit event sources are marked pending once when they are added
and never again afterwards. This means their pending_iteration is never
incremented after they are initially added, which breaks fairness among
event sources with equal priority which depend on the pending_iteration
variable getting updated in source_set_pending(). To fix this, let's assign
iterations for defer and exit sources in source_dispatch() instead so that
those get their pending_iteration updated as well.