core/service: introduce RefreshOnReload= setting

core/service: introduce RefreshOnReload= setting

This allows controlling resources to be refreshed before performing
reload, with one extra benefit that in the future we can permit
"seemless reload"s, i.e. no active signaling is done to the main process
after refreshing get updated. This could come in handy for programs
that loads stuff on demand or watches changes via inotify.