net/mlx5: IPoIB, set self loopback prevention in TIR init

net/mlx5: IPoIB, set self loopback prevention in TIR init

In IPoIB, the self loopback prevention configuration apply in activation
stage has two roles: fulfill a firmware requirement for old firmware
(tis_tir_td_order=0), and update the proper configuration as it was not
set in init.

Here we set the proper configuration in init, to allow skipping the
modify_tirs commands on new firmware in a downstream patch.

Signed-off-by: Tariq Toukan <tariqt@nvidia.com>
Reviewed-by: Carolina Jubran <cjubran@nvidia.com>
Reviewed-by: Simon Horman <horms@kernel.org>
Link: https://patch.msgid.link/1761831159-1013140-5-git-send-email-tariqt@nvidia.com
Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>