dibs: Move event handling to dibs layer

dibs: Move event handling to dibs layer

Add defines for all event types and subtypes an ism device is known to
produce as it can be helpful for debugging purposes.

Introduces a generic 'struct dibs_event' and adopt ism device driver
and smc-d client accordingly. Tolerate and ignore other type and subtype
values to enable future device extensions.

SMC-D and ISM are now independent.
struct ism_dev can be moved to drivers/s390/net/ism.h.

Note that in smc, the term 'ism' is still used. Future patches could
replace that with 'dibs' or 'smc-d' as appropriate.

Signed-off-by: Julian Ruess <julianr@linux.ibm.com>
Co-developed-by: Alexandra Winter <wintera@linux.ibm.com>
Signed-off-by: Alexandra Winter <wintera@linux.ibm.com>
Link: https://patch.msgid.link/20250918110500.1731261-15-wintera@linux.ibm.com
Signed-off-by: Paolo Abeni <pabeni@redhat.com>