wifi: mac80211: send extended MLD capa/ops if AP has it

wifi: mac80211: send extended MLD capa/ops if AP has it

Currently the code only sends extended MLD capa/ops in
strict mode, but if the AP has it then it should also
be able to parse it. There could be cases where the AP
doesn't have it but we would want to advertise it (e.g.
if the AP supports nothing but we want to have BTM.),
but given the broken deployed APs out there right now
this is the best we can do.

Signed-off-by: Johannes Berg <johannes.berg@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Ilan Peer <ilan.peer@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Miri Korenblit <miriam.rachel.korenblit@intel.com>
Link: https://patch.msgid.link/20250609213232.c9b8b3a6ca77.I1153d4283d1fbb9e5db60e7b939cc133a6345db5@changeid
Signed-off-by: Johannes Berg <johannes.berg@intel.com>