net/smc: make wr buffer count configurable

net/smc: make wr buffer count configurable

Think SMC_WR_BUF_CNT_SEND := SMC_WR_BUF_CNT used in send context and
SMC_WR_BUF_CNT_RECV := 3 * SMC_WR_BUF_CNT used in recv context. Those
get replaced with lgr->max_send_wr and lgr->max_recv_wr respective.

Please note that although with the default sysctl values
qp_attr.cap.max_send_wr ==  qp_attr.cap.max_recv_wr is maintained but
can not be assumed to be generally true any more. I see no downside to
that, but my confidence level is rather modest.

Signed-off-by: Halil Pasic <pasic@linux.ibm.com>
Reviewed-by: Sidraya Jayagond <sidraya@linux.ibm.com>
Reviewed-by: Dust Li <dust.li@linux.alibaba.com>
Tested-by: Mahanta Jambigi <mjambigi@linux.ibm.com>
Link: https://patch.msgid.link/20251027224856.2970019-2-pasic@linux.ibm.com
Signed-off-by: Paolo Abeni <pabeni@redhat.com>