net/mlx5e: SHAMPO: Reorganize mlx5_rq_shampo_alloc

net/mlx5e: SHAMPO: Reorganize mlx5_rq_shampo_alloc

Drop redundant SHAMPO structure alloc/free functions.

Gather together function calls pertaining to header split info, pass
header per WQE (hd_per_wqe) as parameter to those function to avoid use
before initialization future mistakes.

Allocate HW GRO related info outside of the header related info scope.

Signed-off-by: Saeed Mahameed <saeedm@nvidia.com>
Reviewed-by: Dragos Tatulea <dtatulea@nvidia.com>
Signed-off-by: Cosmin Ratiu <cratiu@nvidia.com>
Reviewed-by: Tariq Toukan <tariqt@nvidia.com>
Signed-off-by: Mark Bloch <mbloch@nvidia.com>
Link: https://patch.msgid.link/20250616141441.1243044-5-mbloch@nvidia.com
Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>