shared/pam-util: add pam_syslog_errno() wrapper that sets errno

shared/pam-util: add pam_syslog_errno() wrapper that sets errno

So far our pam code was using strerror_safe(). But that's not a good approach,
because strerror_safe() is not thread-safe, and the pam code is "library code"
that should be thread-safe. In fact, the whole effort to use strerror() is
unnecessary, because pam_syslog() is documented to support %m. The
implementation in linux-pam simply uses vasprintf(). If we use %m too, we get
rid of the issue. The wrapper sets errno temporarily from the argument.

Apparently some PAM consumers run multiple PAM stacks in threads, so we should
avoid non-thread-safe code.

The new helper returns PAM_BUF_ERR for ENOMEM, and PAM_SERVICE_ERR in other
cases. This may change the returned code in some cases, but I think a) it
doesn't matter much, b) it's probably for the better. E.g. we might now return
PAM_SERVICE_ERR if the dbus message is borked, and PAM_SERVICE_ERR seems
appropriate.