cxl/region: Consolidate cxl_decoder_kill_region() and cxl_region_detach()

cxl/region: Consolidate cxl_decoder_kill_region() and cxl_region_detach()

Both detach_target() and cxld_unregister() want to tear down a cxl_region
when an endpoint decoder is either detached or destroyed.

When a region is to be destroyed cxl_region_detach() releases
cxl_region_rwsem unbinds the cxl_region driver and re-acquires the rwsem.

This "reverse" locking pattern is difficult to reason about, not amenable
to scope-based cleanup, and the minor differences in the calling context of
detach_target() and cxld_unregister() currently results in the
cxl_decoder_kill_region() wrapper.

Introduce cxl_decoder_detach() to wrap a core __cxl_decoder_detach() that
serves both cases. I.e. either detaching a known position in a region
(interruptible), or detaching an endpoint decoder if it is found to be a
member of a region (uninterruptible).

Cc: Davidlohr Bueso <dave@stgolabs.net>
Cc: Jonathan Cameron <jonathan.cameron@huawei.com>
Cc: Dave Jiang <dave.jiang@intel.com>
Cc: Alison Schofield <alison.schofield@intel.com>
Cc: Vishal Verma <vishal.l.verma@intel.com>
Cc: Ira Weiny <ira.weiny@intel.com>
Acked-by: Peter Zijlstra (Intel) <peterz@infradead.org>
Signed-off-by: Dan Williams <dan.j.williams@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Fabio M. De Francesco <fabio.m.de.francesco@linux.intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Dave Jiang <dave.jiang@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Jonathan Cameron <jonathan.cameron@huawei.com>
Reviewed-by: Alison Schofield <alison.schofield@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Davidlohr Bueso <dave@stgolabs.net>
Link: https://patch.msgid.link/20250711234932.671292-8-dan.j.williams@intel.com
Signed-off-by: Dave Jiang <dave.jiang@intel.com>