MEDIUM: peers: Give up if we fail to take locks in hot path

MEDIUM: peers: Give up if we fail to take locks in hot path

In peer_send_msgs(), give up in order to retry later if we failed at
getting the update read lock.
Similarly, in __process_running_peer_sync(), give up and just reschedule
the task if we failed to get the peer lock. There is an heavy contention
on both those locks, so we could spend a lot of time trying to get them.
This helps getting peers perform better under heavy load.