Add logic to silently and transparently deal with stale expression index

Add logic to silently and transparently deal with stale expression index
values when deleting or update a table row, instead of reporting a corrupt
database.  Enhance PRAGMA integrity_check to identify non-serious
stale expression index entries as such, rather than proclaiming that the
indexes is broken.

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