net/mlx5: Lag: refactor representor reload handling

net/mlx5: Lag: refactor representor reload handling

Representor reload during LAG/MPESW transitions has to be repeated in
several flows, and each open-coded loop was easy to get out of sync
when adding new flags or tweaking error handling. Move the sequencing
into a single helper so that all call sites share the same ordering
and checks.

Signed-off-by: Mark Bloch <mbloch@nvidia.com>
Reviewed-by: Shay Drori <shayd@nvidia.com>
Signed-off-by: Tariq Toukan <tariqt@nvidia.com>
Link: https://patch.msgid.link/20260503202726.266415-2-tariqt@nvidia.com
Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>