- use provide_metadata for new unique constraint / index tests

- use provide_metadata for new unique constraint / index tests
- add a test for PG reflection of unique index without any unique
constraint
- for PG, don't include 'duplicates_constraint' in the entry
if the index does not actually mirror a constraint
- use a distinct method for unique constraint reflection within table
- catch unique constraint not implemented condition; this may
be within some dialects and also is expected to be supported by
Alembic tests
- migration + changelogs for #3184
- add individual doc notes as well to MySQL, Postgreql
fixes #3184