- adjust _revalidate_connection() again such that we pass a _wrap=False

- adjust _revalidate_connection() again such that we pass a _wrap=False
to it, so that we say we will do the wrapping just once right here
in _execute_context() / _execute_default().  An adjustment is made
to _handle_dbapi_error() to not assume self.__connection in case
we are already in an invalidated state

further adjustment to
0639c199a547343d62134d2f233225fd2862ec45, 41e7253dee168b8c26c49, #3266