MINOR: quic-be: get rid of ->li quic_conn member

MINOR: quic-be: get rid of ->li quic_conn member

Replace ->li quic_conn pointer to struct listener member by  ->target which is
an object type enum and adapt the code.
Use __objt_(listener|server)() where the object type is known. Typically
this is were the code which is specific to one connection type (frontend/backend).
Remove <server> parameter passed to qc_new_conn(). It is redundant with the
<target> parameter.
GSO is not supported at this time for QUIC backend. qc_prep_pkts() is modified
to prevent it from building more than an MTU. This has as consequence to prevent
qc_send_ppkts() to use GSO.
ssl_clienthello.c code is run only by listeners. This is why __objt_listener()
is used in place of ->li.