vhost-net: wake queue of tun/tap after ptr_ring consume

vhost-net: wake queue of tun/tap after ptr_ring consume

Add tun_wake_queue() to tun.c and export it for use by vhost-net. The
function validates that the file belongs to a tun/tap device and that
the tfile exists, dereferences the tun_struct under RCU, and delegates
to __tun_wake_queue().

vhost_net_buf_produce() now calls tun_wake_queue() after a successful
batched consume of the ring to allow the netdev subqueue to be woken up.
The point is to allow the queue to be stopped when it gets full, which
is required for traffic shaping - implemented by the following
"avoid ptr_ring tail-drop when a qdisc is present".

Without the corresponding queue stopping, this patch alone causes no
throughput regression for a tap+vhost-net setup sending to a qemu VM:
3.857 Mpps to 3.891 Mpps.

Details: AMD Ryzen 5 5600X at 4.3 GHz, 3200 MHz RAM, isolated QEMU
threads, XDP drop program active in VM, pktgen sender; Avg over
50 runs @ 100,000,000 packets. SRSO and spectre v2 mitigations disabled.

Co-developed-by: Tim Gebauer <tim.gebauer@tu-dortmund.de>
Signed-off-by: Tim Gebauer <tim.gebauer@tu-dortmund.de>
Signed-off-by: Simon Schippers <simon.schippers@tu-dortmund.de>
Acked-by: Michael S. Tsirkin <mst@redhat.com>
Link: https://patch.msgid.link/20260510151529.43895-3-simon.schippers@tu-dortmund.de
Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>