bcachefs: bch2_bkey_get_iter() helpers

bcachefs: bch2_bkey_get_iter() helpers

Introduce new helpers for a common pattern:

  bch2_trans_iter_init();
  bch2_btree_iter_peek_slot();

 - bch2_bkey_get_iter_type() returns -ENOENT if it doesn't find a key of
   the correct type
 - bch2_bkey_get_val_typed() copies the val out of the btree to a
   (typically stack allocated) variable; it handles the case where the
   value in the btree is smaller than the current version of the type,
   zeroing out the remainder.

Signed-off-by: Kent Overstreet <kent.overstreet@linux.dev>