rust: dma: update to keyworded index projection syntax

rust: dma: update to keyworded index projection syntax

Demonstrate the preferred syntax of index projection in DMA documentation
and examples. A few `[i]?` cases are converted to demonstrate the new
variant.

Reviewed-by: Alice Ryhl <aliceryhl@google.com>
Reviewed-by: Andreas Hindborg <a.hindborg@kernel.org>
Reviewed-by: Alexandre Courbot <acourbot@nvidia.com>
Signed-off-by: Gary Guo <gary@garyguo.net>
Acked-by: Danilo Krummrich <dakr@kernel.org>
Link: https://patch.msgid.link/20260602-projection-syntax-rework-v2-4-6989470f5440@garyguo.net
Signed-off-by: Miguel Ojeda <ojeda@kernel.org>