[3.9] gh-89452: GHA: Set --with-dbmliborder to avoid issues with homebrew's gdbm...

[3.9] gh-89452: GHA: Set --with-dbmliborder to avoid issues with homebrew's gdbm 1.24 (GH-125112) (#125176)

Per https://github.com/python/cpython/issues/89452GH-issuecomment-1116329316,
the issue is fixed in configure for 3.11+, and

> For older Python versions, the workaround is to build with:
>
>     ./configure --with-dbmliborder=gdbm:ndbm

We need this workaround in GitHub Actions, otherwise the tests fail.
(cherry picked from commit 850189a64e7f0b920fe48cb12a5da3e648435680)

Co-authored-by: Łukasz Langa <lukasz@langa.pl>