- Fixed bug in 0.6-reworked "many-to-one" optimizations

- Fixed bug in 0.6-reworked "many-to-one" optimizations
such that a many-to-one that is against a non-primary key
column on the remote table (i.e. foreign key against a
UNIQUE column) will pull the "old" value in from the
database during a change, since if it's in the session
we will need it for proper history/backref accounting,
and we can't pull from the local identity map on a
non-primary key column. [ticket:1737] (test is pending)