PCI: Add PCIe Device 3 Extended Capability enumeration

PCI: Add PCIe Device 3 Extended Capability enumeration

PCIe r7.0 Section 7.7.9 Device 3 Extended Capability Structure, defines the
canonical location for determining the Flit Mode of a device. This status
is a dependency for PCIe IDE enabling. Add a new fm_enabled flag to 'struct
pci_dev'.

Cc: Lukas Wunner <lukas@wunner.de>
Cc: Ilpo Järvinen <ilpo.jarvinen@linux.intel.com>
Cc: Bjorn Helgaas <bhelgaas@google.com>
Cc: Samuel Ortiz <sameo@rivosinc.com>
Cc: Alexey Kardashevskiy <aik@amd.com>
Cc: Xu Yilun <yilun.xu@linux.intel.com>
Acked-by: Bjorn Helgaas <bhelgaas@google.com>
Reviewed-by: Jonathan Cameron <jonathan.cameron@huawei.com>
Link: https://patch.msgid.link/20251031212902.2256310-6-dan.j.williams@intel.com
Signed-off-by: Dan Williams <dan.j.williams@intel.com>