MINOR: proxy: add a list of orphaned defaults sections

MINOR: proxy: add a list of orphaned defaults sections

We'll soon delete unreferenced and duplicated named defaults sections
from the list of proxies. The problem with this is that this list (in
fact a name-based tree) is used to release all of them at the end. Let's
add a list of orphaned defaults sections, typically those containing
"http-check send" statements or various other rules, and that are
implicitly inherited by a proxy hence have a non-zero refcount while
also having a name. These now makes it possible to remove them from
the name index while still keeping their memory around for the lifetime
of the process, and cleaning it at the end.