selftests: mptcp: add a check for sndbuf of S/C

selftests: mptcp: add a check for sndbuf of S/C

Add a new chk_sndbuf() helper to diag.sh that extracts the sndbuf
(the 'tb' field from 'ss -m' skmem output) for both server and
client MPTCP sockets, and verifies they are equal.

Without the previous patch, it will fail:

'''
07 ....chk sndbuf server/client    [FAIL] sndbuf S=20480 != C=2630656
'''

Signed-off-by: Gang Yan <yangang@kylinos.cn>
Reviewed-by: Matthieu Baerts (NGI0) <matttbe@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: Matthieu Baerts (NGI0) <matttbe@kernel.org>
Link: https://patch.msgid.link/20260420-net-mptcp-sync-sndbuf-accept-v1-2-e3523e3aeb44@kernel.org
Signed-off-by: Paolo Abeni <pabeni@redhat.com>