sched_ext: Factor out abbreviated dispatch dequeue into dispatch_dequeue_locked()

sched_ext: Factor out abbreviated dispatch dequeue into dispatch_dequeue_locked()

move_task_between_dsqs() contains open-coded abbreviated dequeue logic when
moving tasks between non-local DSQs. Factor this out into
dispatch_dequeue_locked() which can be used when both the task's rq and dsq
locks are already held. Add lockdep assertions to both dispatch_dequeue() and
the new helper to verify locking requirements.

This prepares for the load balancer which will need the same abbreviated
dequeue pattern.

Cc: Andrea Righi <arighi@nvidia.com>
Cc: Dan Schatzberg <schatzberg.dan@gmail.com>
Cc: Emil Tsalapatis <etsal@meta.com>
Signed-off-by: Tejun Heo <tj@kernel.org>