Add support for server side cursors to mysqldb and pymysql

Add support for server side cursors to mysqldb and pymysql

This allows to skip buffering of the results on the client side, e.g.
the following snippet:

    table = sa.Table(
        'testtbl', sa.MetaData(),
        sa.Column('id', sa.Integer, primary_key=True),
        sa.Column('a', sa.Integer),
        sa.Column('b', sa.String(512))
    )
    table.create(eng, checkfirst=True)

    with eng.connect() as conn:
        result = conn.execute(table.select().limit(1)).fetchone()
        if result is None:
            for _ in range(1000):
                conn.execute(
                    table.insert(),
                    [{'a': random.randint(1, 100000),
                      'b': ''.join(random.choice(string.ascii_letters) for _ in range(100))}
                      for _ in range(1000)]
                )

    with eng.connect() as conn:
        for row in conn.execution_options(stream_results=True).execute(table.select()):
            pass

now uses ~23 MB of memory instead of ~327 MB on CPython 3.5.2 and
PyMySQL 0.7.9.

psycopg2 implementation and execution options (stream_results,
server_side_cursors) are reused.

Change-Id: I4dc23ce3094f027bdff51b896b050361991c62e2