net: switch to netif_disable_lro in inetdev_init

net: switch to netif_disable_lro in inetdev_init

Cosmin reports the following deadlock:
dump_stack_lvl+0x62/0x90
print_deadlock_bug+0x274/0x3b0
__lock_acquire+0x1229/0x2470
lock_acquire+0xb7/0x2b0
__mutex_lock+0xa6/0xd20
dev_disable_lro+0x20/0x80
inetdev_init+0x12f/0x1f0
inetdev_event+0x48b/0x870
notifier_call_chain+0x38/0xf0
netif_change_net_namespace+0x72e/0x9f0
do_setlink.isra.0+0xd5/0x1220
rtnl_newlink+0x7ea/0xb50
rtnetlink_rcv_msg+0x459/0x5e0
netlink_rcv_skb+0x54/0x100
netlink_unicast+0x193/0x270
netlink_sendmsg+0x204/0x450

Switch to netif_disable_lro which assumes the caller holds the instance
lock. inetdev_init is called for blackhole device (which sw device and
doesn't grab instance lock) and from REGISTER/UNREGISTER notifiers.
We already hold the instance lock for REGISTER notifier during
netns change and we'll soon hold the lock during other paths.

Reviewed-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>
Reported-by: Cosmin Ratiu <cratiu@nvidia.com>
Fixes: ad7c7b2172c3 ("net: hold netdev instance lock during sysfs operations")
Signed-off-by: Stanislav Fomichev <sdf@fomichev.me>
Link: https://patch.msgid.link/20250401163452.622454-2-sdf@fomichev.me
Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>