ratelimit: Count misses due to lock contention

ratelimit: Count misses due to lock contention

The ___ratelimit() function simply returns zero ("do ratelimiting")
if the trylock fails, but does not adjust the ->missed field.  This
means that the resulting dropped printk()s are dropped silently, which
could seriously confuse people trying to do console-log-based debugging.
Therefore, increment the ->missed field upon trylock failure.

Link: https://lore.kernel.org/all/fbe93a52-365e-47fe-93a4-44a44547d601@paulmck-laptop/
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/all/20250423115409.3425-1-spasswolf@web.de/
Signed-off-by: Paul E. McKenney <paulmck@kernel.org>
Reviewed-by: Petr Mladek <pmladek@suse.com>
Cc: Andrew Morton <akpm@linux-foundation.org>
Cc: Kuniyuki Iwashima <kuniyu@amazon.com>
Cc: Mateusz Guzik <mjguzik@gmail.com>
Cc: Steven Rostedt <rostedt@goodmis.org>
Cc: John Ogness <john.ogness@linutronix.de>
Cc: Sergey Senozhatsky <senozhatsky@chromium.org>