ipvs: fix the spin_lock usage for RT build

ipvs: fix the spin_lock usage for RT build

syzbot reports for sleeping function called from invalid context [1].
The recently added code for resizable hash tables uses
hlist_bl bit locks in combination with spin_lock for
the connection fields (cp->lock).

Fix the following problems:

* avoid using spin_lock(&cp->lock) under locked bit lock
because it sleeps on PREEMPT_RT

* as the recent changes call ip_vs_conn_hash() only for newly
allocated connection, the spin_lock can be removed there because
the connection is still not linked to table and does not need
cp->lock protection.

* the lock can be removed also from ip_vs_conn_unlink() where we
are the last connection user.

* the last place that is fixed is ip_vs_conn_fill_cport()
where now the cp->lock is locked before the other locks to
ensure other packets do not modify the cp->flags in non-atomic
way. Here we make sure cport and flags are changed only once
if two or more packets race to fill the cport. Also, we fill
cport early, so that if we race with resizing there will be
valid cport key for the hashing. Add a warning if too many
hash table changes occur for our RCU read-side critical
section which is error condition but minor because the
connection still can expire gracefully. Still, restore the
cport to 0 to allow retransmitted packet to properly fill
the cport. Problems reported by Sashiko.

[1]:
BUG: sleeping function called from invalid context at kernel/locking/spinlock_rt.c:48
in_atomic(): 1, irqs_disabled(): 0, non_block: 0, pid: 16, name: ktimers/0
preempt_count: 2, expected: 0
RCU nest depth: 3, expected: 3
8 locks held by ktimers/0/16:
 #0: ffffffff8de5f260 (local_bh){.+.+}-{1:3}, at: __local_bh_disable_ip+0x3c/0x420 kernel/softirq.c:163
 #1: ffffffff8dfc80c0 (rcu_read_lock){....}-{1:3}, at: __local_bh_disable_ip+0x3c/0x420 kernel/softirq.c:163
 #2: ffff8880b8826360 (&base->expiry_lock){+...}-{3:3}, at: spin_lock include/linux/spinlock_rt.h:45 [inline]
 #2: ffff8880b8826360 (&base->expiry_lock){+...}-{3:3}, at: timer_base_lock_expiry kernel/time/timer.c:1502 [inline]
 #2: ffff8880b8826360 (&base->expiry_lock){+...}-{3:3}, at: __run_timer_base+0x120/0x9f0 kernel/time/timer.c:2384
 #3: ffffffff8dfc80c0 (rcu_read_lock){....}-{1:3}, at: rcu_lock_acquire include/linux/rcupdate.h:300 [inline]
 #3: ffffffff8dfc80c0 (rcu_read_lock){....}-{1:3}, at: rcu_read_lock include/linux/rcupdate.h:838 [inline]
 #3: ffffffff8dfc80c0 (rcu_read_lock){....}-{1:3}, at: __rt_spin_lock kernel/locking/spinlock_rt.c:50 [inline]
 #3: ffffffff8dfc80c0 (rcu_read_lock){....}-{1:3}, at: rt_spin_lock+0x1e0/0x400 kernel/locking/spinlock_rt.c:57
 #4: ffffc90000157a80 ((&cp->timer)){+...}-{0:0}, at: call_timer_fn+0xd4/0x5e0 kernel/time/timer.c:1745
 #5: ffffffff8dfc80c0 (rcu_read_lock){....}-{1:3}, at: rcu_lock_acquire include/linux/rcupdate.h:300 [inline]
 #5: ffffffff8dfc80c0 (rcu_read_lock){....}-{1:3}, at: rcu_read_lock include/linux/rcupdate.h:838 [inline]
 #5: ffffffff8dfc80c0 (rcu_read_lock){....}-{1:3}, at: ip_vs_conn_unlink net/netfilter/ipvs/ip_vs_conn.c:315 [inline]
 #5: ffffffff8dfc80c0 (rcu_read_lock){....}-{1:3}, at: ip_vs_conn_expire+0x257/0x2390 net/netfilter/ipvs/ip_vs_conn.c:1260
 #6: ffffffff8de5f260 (local_bh){.+.+}-{1:3}, at: __local_bh_disable_ip+0x3c/0x420 kernel/softirq.c:163
 #7: ffff888068d4c3f0 (&cp->lock#2){+...}-{3:3}, at: spin_lock include/linux/spinlock_rt.h:45 [inline]
 #7: ffff888068d4c3f0 (&cp->lock#2){+...}-{3:3}, at: ip_vs_conn_unlink net/netfilter/ipvs/ip_vs_conn.c:324 [inline]
 #7: ffff888068d4c3f0 (&cp->lock#2){+...}-{3:3}, at: ip_vs_conn_expire+0xd4a/0x2390 net/netfilter/ipvs/ip_vs_conn.c:1260
Preemption disabled at:
[<ffffffff898a6358>] bit_spin_lock include/linux/bit_spinlock.h:38 [inline]
[<ffffffff898a6358>] hlist_bl_lock+0x18/0x110 include/linux/list_bl.h:149
CPU: 0 UID: 0 PID: 16 Comm: ktimers/0 Tainted: G        W    L      syzkaller #0 PREEMPT_{RT,(full)}
Tainted: [W]=WARN, [L]=SOFTLOCKUP
Hardware name: Google Google Compute Engine/Google Compute Engine, BIOS Google 03/18/2026
Call Trace:
 <TASK>
 dump_stack_lvl+0xe8/0x150 lib/dump_stack.c:120
 __might_resched+0x329/0x480 kernel/sched/core.c:9162
 __rt_spin_lock kernel/locking/spinlock_rt.c:48 [inline]
 rt_spin_lock+0xc2/0x400 kernel/locking/spinlock_rt.c:57
 spin_lock include/linux/spinlock_rt.h:45 [inline]
 ip_vs_conn_unlink net/netfilter/ipvs/ip_vs_conn.c:324 [inline]
 ip_vs_conn_expire+0xd4a/0x2390 net/netfilter/ipvs/ip_vs_conn.c:1260
 call_timer_fn+0x192/0x5e0 kernel/time/timer.c:1748
 expire_timers kernel/time/timer.c:1799 [inline]
 __run_timers kernel/time/timer.c:2374 [inline]
 __run_timer_base+0x6a3/0x9f0 kernel/time/timer.c:2386
 run_timer_base kernel/time/timer.c:2395 [inline]
 run_timer_softirq+0xb7/0x170 kernel/time/timer.c:2405
 handle_softirqs+0x1de/0x6d0 kernel/softirq.c:622
 __do_softirq kernel/softirq.c:656 [inline]
 run_ktimerd+0x69/0x100 kernel/softirq.c:1151
 smpboot_thread_fn+0x541/0xa50 kernel/smpboot.c:160
 kthread+0x388/0x470 kernel/kthread.c:436
 ret_from_fork+0x514/0xb70 arch/x86/kernel/process.c:158
 ret_from_fork_asm+0x1a/0x30 arch/x86/entry/entry_64.S:245
 </TASK>

Reported-by: syzbot+504e778ddaecd36fdd17@syzkaller.appspotmail.com
Link: https://sashiko.dev/#/patchset/20260415200216.79699-1-ja%40ssi.bg
Link: https://sashiko.dev/#/patchset/20260420165539.85174-4-ja%40ssi.bg
Link: https://sashiko.dev/#/patchset/20260422135823.50489-4-ja%40ssi.bg
Fixes: 2fa7cc9c7025 ("ipvs: switch to per-net connection table")
Signed-off-by: Julian Anastasov <ja@ssi.bg>
Signed-off-by: Pablo Neira Ayuso <pablo@netfilter.org>