lib/resolve: track rtt of all tried servers

lib/resolve: track rtt of all tried servers

when doing fast retransmit, each address may be
contacted 1-N times, but previously only cumulative
RTT was tracked for the NS that sent the answer.

now the approximate query start time is subtracted
from cumulative RTT to give an idea how long it
took since the query was actually sent, and all
the NSs that didn't respond within their retransmit
windows are penalised too