Raise UnmappedInstanceError if the attribute of a database object is an unmapped...

Raise UnmappedInstanceError if the attribute of a database object is an unmapped object.

The proposed change will raise an UnmappedInstanceError instead of an attribute error if an instance an Instrumented Attribute is unmapped.

### Description
If a user tries to access an attribute of a database object that is unmapped then an error is raised. The reason for this is because the __get__  descriptor  uses instance_state(instance) which uses the operator.attrgetter method to see if the object in question has the attribute "_sa_instance_state" that mapped objects have.  If it doesn't contain this attribute it means that the object is unmapped.

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- [ ] A documentation / typographical error fix
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- [X ] A short code fix
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- [ ] A new feature implementation
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**Have a nice day!**
Fixes: #3858
Closes: #5478
Pull-request: https://github.com/sqlalchemy/sqlalchemy/pull/5478
Pull-request-sha: 853051c9225446b69f52b13ade78709ad2617f6d

Change-Id: I5989c81227e55e628babdd11406d1e8ec0e8d93a