Default to nat=yes; warn when nat in general and peer differ

Default to nat=yes; warn when nat in general and peer differ

It is possible to enumerate SIP usernames when the general and user/peer
nat settings differ in whether to respond to the port a request is sent
from or the port listed for responses in the Via header. In 1.4 and 1.6.2,
this would mean if one setting was nat=yes or nat=route and the other was
either nat=no or nat=never. In 1.8 and 10, this would mean when one was
nat=force_rport and the other was nat=no.

In order to address this problem, it was decided to switch the default
behavior to nat=yes/force_rport as it is the most commonly used option
and to strongly discourage setting nat per-peer/user when at all possible.

For more discussion of the issue, please see:
  http://lists.digium.com/pipermail/asterisk-dev/2011-November/052191.html

(closes issue ASTERISK-18862)
Review: https://reviewboard.asterisk.org/r/1591/
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