Bluetooth: mgmt: hold reference for hci_conn in mgmt_pending_cmds

Bluetooth: mgmt: hold reference for hci_conn in mgmt_pending_cmds

Dereferencing RCU-protected pointers outside critical sections is
invalid and may lead to UAF.  Use of hci_conn in hci_sync callbacks also
needs to hold refcount to avoid UAF.

Take appropriate locks for hci_conn lookups, and take refcount for
hci_conn pointers stored in mgmt_pending_cmd so that the pointer stays
valid.

When accessing conn->state, ensure hdev->lock is held to avoid data
race.

Fixes: 7b445e220db9 ("Bluetooth: MGMT: Fix holding hci_conn reference while command is queued")
Signed-off-by: Pauli Virtanen <pav@iki.fi>
Signed-off-by: Luiz Augusto von Dentz <luiz.von.dentz@intel.com>