[3.9] gh-103142: Upgrade binary builds and CI to OpenSSL 1.1.1u (GH-105174) (GH-10520...

[3.9] gh-103142: Upgrade binary builds and CI to OpenSSL 1.1.1u (GH-105174) (GH-105200) (#105205)

Upgrade builds to OpenSSL 1.1.1u.

Also updates _ssl_data_111.h from OpenSSL 1.1.1u, _ssl_data_300.h from 3.0.9.

Manual edits to the _ssl_data_300.h file prevent it from removing any
existing definitions in case those exist in some peoples builds and were
important (avoiding regressions during backporting).

(cherry picked from commit ede89af)

Co-authored-by: Ned Deily <nad@python.org>