af_unix: Refine wait_for_unix_gc().

af_unix: Refine wait_for_unix_gc().

unix_tot_inflight is a poor metric, only telling the number of
inflight AF_UNXI sockets, and we should use unix_graph_state instead.

Also, if the receiver is catching up with the passed fds, the
sender does not need to schedule GC.

GC only helps unreferenced cyclic SCM_RIGHTS references, and in
such a situation, the malicious sendmsg() will continue to call
wait_for_unix_gc() and hit the UNIX_INFLIGHT_SANE_USER condition.

Let's make only malicious users schedule GC and wait for it to
finish if a cyclic reference exists during the previous GC run.

Then, sane users will pay almost no cost for wait_for_unix_gc().

Signed-off-by: Kuniyuki Iwashima <kuniyu@google.com>
Link: https://patch.msgid.link/20251115020935.2643121-6-kuniyu@google.com
Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>